Babyproofing Your Marriage: How to Laugh More, Argue Less, and Communicate Better as Your Family GrowsWarning! New parents are likely to experience: ScorekeepingAn exceedingly complex, often relentless, tit for tat war waged by husbands and wives over the division of parenting responsibilities and domestic chores. The Ten O'Clock Shoulder TapConsidered by many men to be a form of foreplay. A paw on a wife's shoulder is how some men indicate their desire for sex. The Tap is rarely accompanied by a term of endearment or any other verbal form of